When was the last time you bought a sex toy for yourself or your partner? You probably looked at the reviews. You may have considered qualities like color, shape, and the variety of vibrations that the toy provided.
However, there are other important factors you need to consider. Sometimes those factors are safety-related. Other factors that might be important to you could impact how you are able to use it if you have a disability or are limited in your range of motion.
Want to choose a sex toy that will give you the best bang for your buck? Keep reading for tips for choosing a sex toy you’ll love.
Not all sex toys are made the same. Manufacturers of sex toys have their own practices and policies, and not all of them are desirable.
One of the first things you can do when you’re thinking about purchasing a sex toy is check to see who made it. Then, do a web search to see what you can find out about the company.
For example, if you do a search for one specific popular brand you might find a lot of good reviews. This is common because large companies can afford to make sure that only good things show up when people search for them. However, if you look for the company on the Better Business Bureau website, you’ll see they have some customer service issues.
Do your due diligence and spend some time researching!
Too often, people don’t even look for the materials used to make the toys because they don’t understand the impact it could have on them. But sex toys are used on a very intimate and delicate part of the body (especially if they are used internally).
The best quality sex toys should be made from ABS plastic or medical-grade silicone. These materials are less porous than other materials. That means that bodily fluids will not be absorbed by the sex toy. It also makes it much easier to sanitize the toy.
Other materials that are safe to use are glass and stainless steel. These materials might seem unsexy at first, but some beautifully designed stainless steel and glass sex toys feel very good when used!
It doesn’t seem like buttons and switches should be a big deal when it comes to choosing a sex toy but they can be for some people. Think about how you are going to use the sex toy. Now, are you going to be able to reach the buttons to change the vibrations or turn up the speed or are they placed somewhere that will make it impossible?
If you have limited mobility in your hands, this could be a major problem. You need to be able to control the toy and have access to the on/off button and the buttons that control vibrations and speed.
Also, consider how easily you will be able to press the buttons. Sometimes those buttons require a firm touch to turn them off and on and if you don’t have a lot of muscle strength in your fingers that might prove challenging.
Not all toys are built equally. Shape and design matter. It especially matters for anyone who has a physical disability or limitations in their range of motion. Will you be able to control the toy the way you want to? Will it cause pain in your wrists or hands?
Perhaps you are only able to be in certain positions while using a sex toy. If you’re not able to lay on your back for extended periods of time, you’ll want to look for a toy that has the right shape to allow you to lay on your side while using it or even on your stomach. Maybe sitting in a chair is the most comfortable option for you.
Everyone’s body is built differently. The G-spot is not in the exact same spot for every person. Internally, some people can have a shallower or deeper canal. Some vaginas are smaller than others. The flexibility of a sex toy will determine how enjoyable it is for you if your body is not the standard shape and size.
Also, if you have a fupa, if you are in a wheelchair, if you are limited in your mobility, you may find that many sex toys just don’t work for you because you are unable to position them the way you need to.
A lot of the less expensive toys have a loud vibration. This isn’t a big deal for a lot of people and it’s not important if you’re in your bedroom and no one else is home.
However, if you live with other people, you probably don’t want them to know that every time you’re in the shower, you’re actually playing with your new vibrator!
The noise level might also be an important factor if you are neurodivergent. Many neurodivergent people have noise sensitivities. The idea of trying to get off while something is buzzing around your nether regions is just laughable. It’s not going to happen.
Everyone should have access to good orgasms, whether it is with a trusted partner, a qualified sex worker, or by themselves. For those who want to have solo orgasms, this means there needs to be more toys that can be used in non-traditional ways.
Most toys that use any sort of vibration or require motion can only be used by people who can use their hands. However, technology is slowly finding ways to help people with different abilities find ways to use sex toys. Bigger buttons, better placement of switches, and alternative methods for holding and gripping toys give people more options.
All sex toys can be fun but not all sex toys are safe and well-suited for everyone. If you look for these qualities and consider your abilities, your range of motion, and your specific needs, you can enjoy solo or partnered sex with fun toys.
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